Insights
Neuroscience, longevity, and the art of rebuilding. Essays on what happens in the brain — and in life — when everything falls apart and you choose to build something new.
Why Your Brain Was Designed to Break — and Rebuild Stronger
We are told to bounce back. But neuroscience tells a different story. Your brain does not bounce. It reorganizes. It builds new architecture that did not exist before the break.
There are legacies carved in stone — companies, patents, buildings with your name on them. And then there are legacies that breathe. The kind that laugh at your jokes and call you Nana.
You bought the tracker to sleep better. But now you are lying awake at 2am, anxious about your sleep score. There is a clinical name for this, and it is more common than you think.
The holidays are supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year. But when you are carrying grief, they can be the hardest. Here are seven strategies that actually work.
Every October, I take stock. Not of my chronological age — that number is just math. I measure my biological age. This year, the results surprised me.
Conventional medicine asks 'What disease do you have?' Functional medicine asks 'Why are you sick?' After writing a dissertation on this, I can tell you: the second question saves more lives.
The Harvard Study of Adult Development followed people for 85 years. The number one predictor of health and longevity was not diet, exercise, or genetics. It was relationships.
I spent decades thinking like a physicist — breaking complex systems into parts. Then I realized the human body does not work that way. Here is what systems thinking taught me about healing.
Sleep deprivation reduces your ability to enter flow state by up to 40%. Here is the science behind why your best creative work depends on what happens the night before.
Starting over is not a failure of planning. It is a feature of the human brain. Here is what neuroscience tells us about the three phases every reinvention follows.
Every night, your body follows a precise architectural blueprint — cycling through four stages that repair muscles, consolidate memories, and regulate emotions. Here is how it works.
After losing Benjamin, I was not sure I would ever feel uncomplicated joy again. Then a very small person proved me wrong.
When KKR pushed me out of the company I built, I had two choices: fight or learn. I chose to learn. Here is why going back to school was the most radical act of reinvention I have ever done.
That sleep score on your wrist? It is only 78% accurate for sleep staging. As someone with 50+ patents in sleep tech, here is what your tracker gets right, what it gets wrong, and what actually matters.
There is a special kind of irony in being a health expert who does not feel well. Here is what happened when I had to practice what I preach — and what it taught me about real healing.
The best negotiation training I ever received was not at Harvard Business School. It was at my kitchen table, negotiating bedtime with a four-year-old.
The holidays amplify everything — including grief. Here is what I learned about navigating the most emotionally loaded season of the year when you are carrying loss.
Your chronological age is just math. Your biological age is a choice. Here is how I think about birthdays after loss — and why I am more interested in my epigenetic clock than the candles on my cake.
We talk about grieving people. We rarely talk about grieving who you used to be. Identity loss triggers the same neural pathways as physical pain — and it deserves the same compassion.
Silicon Valley turned flow state into a productivity hack. But the man who discovered it described something much deeper — and much more accessible — than a neurochemical shortcut.
Your body needs to drop its core temperature by 2-3°F to fall asleep. Most people are sleeping in rooms that are too warm. As a physicist, this was the problem I was born to solve.